Thots & Prayers

I thought I would curate a few of the random places that I've popped up, whether it's articles in regional publications or podcast appearances. First, let's start with the High Plains Reader. This originally started in Grand Forks as an indie arts publication, and at some point moved down to Fargo. I have contributed a few pieces of writing to them over the years, and even appeared on the cover - the year when the anti-drag hate group popped up and I got a bunch of death t

I wanted to create a space to collect and document my posts about the recent drama surrounding the termination of my verbal contract with Dakota OutRight. I have been their show director and MC for over twenty years, and was recently terminated one month before Pride; the reason stated for the termination was that my political commentary was too polarizing, i.e., it upset white conservatives in the community. I'm very wordy, so I thought it might be helpful to collect all o

I only finished all of Cougar Town because of my unfortunate completionist impulses, but it left me with some interesting thoughts about men. Great. Because it's not like they get any attention in our current culture... I'm tired of hearing about the "male loneliness epidemic" as if so much of what that entails isn't just a bunch of overgrown babymen refusing to put in even an ounce of self-improvement, listening to red-pill garbage, and blaming the women who rightfully fin

I'm working on figuring out the shopping cart process here on Wix, and I may open a more permanent shop page at some point, but for now you can browse my 2026 Spring Jewelry Inventory! Please contact me directly over Instagram or Facebook to purchase! These are the designs that I have currently available. As designs are sold, I will edit the site to reflect that they are no longer available. I can accept payments through Paypal or Venmo. Shipping is $15 for Flat Rate Prior

No sooner did I choose of "word of the year" to guide my actions in 2026, the universe decided to say, "Hold my beer!" and challenge me in every way possible. I have a friend who chooses a word of the year to focus on; she lets it guide how she moves in the world, how she responds to situations, and how she thinks about the year ahead. I thought that sounded like an interesting way to greet the new year, and I decided I wanted to have a word that could be my mantra, my inspi